[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.komplex3m.cz\/iluze-dokonalosti-na-socialnich-sitich\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.komplex3m.cz\/iluze-dokonalosti-na-socialnich-sitich\/","headline":"Iluze dokonalosti na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch","name":"Iluze dokonalosti na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch","description":"Na rodi\u010de obecn\u011b jsou v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b kladeny vysok\u00e9 n\u00e1roky. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 m\u00e1ma se sna\u017e\u00ed d\u011blat v\u0161e tak nejl\u00e9pe, jak jen um\u00ed. A\u0165 u\u017e co se v\u00fdchovy a p\u00e9\u010de o d\u00edt\u011b t\u00fd\u010de, tak starost o dom\u00e1cnost \u010di sebe samu. Obdob\u00ed mate\u0159sk\u00e9 je pln\u00e9 kr\u00e1sn\u00fdch okam\u017eik\u016f, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 um\u00ed d\u00e1t p\u011bkn\u011b zabrat. \u017dena se \u010dasto m\u016f\u017ee c\u00edtit sama. […]","datePublished":"2019-12-26","dateModified":"2019-12-26","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.komplex3m.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.komplex3m.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dcb1aeb5e7d95014cdc92e76cf3c72f6b456579bf773ad0081803a6569ffc19c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dcb1aeb5e7d95014cdc92e76cf3c72f6b456579bf773ad0081803a6569ffc19c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"komplex3m.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.komplex3m.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a364899_w4177_t1578130665.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.komplex3m.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a364899_w4177_t1578130665.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.komplex3m.cz\/iluze-dokonalosti-na-socialnich-sitich\/","about":["Online"],"wordCount":478,"articleBody":"Na rodi\u010de obecn\u011b jsou v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b kladeny vysok\u00e9 n\u00e1roky. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 m\u00e1ma se sna\u017e\u00ed d\u011blat v\u0161e tak nejl\u00e9pe, jak jen um\u00ed. A\u0165 u\u017e co se v\u00fdchovy a p\u00e9\u010de o d\u00edt\u011b t\u00fd\u010de, tak starost o dom\u00e1cnost \u010di sebe samu. Obdob\u00ed mate\u0159sk\u00e9 je pln\u00e9 kr\u00e1sn\u00fdch okam\u017eik\u016f, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 um\u00ed d\u00e1t p\u011bkn\u011b zabrat. \u017dena se \u010dasto m\u016f\u017ee c\u00edtit sama. Man\u017eel v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci, s\u00a0bezd\u011btn\u00fdmi kamar\u00e1dkami si pomalu nem\u00e1 o \u010dem pov\u00eddat. A pr\u00e1v\u011b to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt ta chv\u00edle, kdy se \u017eena uch\u00fdl\u00ed k\u00a0internetu. Na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch, \u010di diskuzn\u00edch f\u00f3rech pak hled\u00e1 nejen rady a tipy, ale \u010dasto i sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bn\u00e9 du\u0161e. N\u011bkoho, s\u00a0k\u00fdm m\u016f\u017ee prohodit p\u00e1r norm\u00e1ln\u00edch slov.Zde m\u016f\u017ee ale ob\u010das narazit!M\u011b\u0159\u00edtko dokonalosti m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd nastaven\u00e9 jinak. Sta\u010d\u00ed v\u0161ak otev\u0159\u00edt Facebook nebo Instagram, kde na v\u00e1s vysko\u010d\u00ed fotografie rodin va\u0161ich p\u0159\u00e1tel, a r\u00e1zem m\u00e1te zoufal\u00fd pocit, \u017ee asi d\u011bl\u00e1te v\u0161e \u0161patn\u011b. Fotografie upraven\u00fdch, usm\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch se maminek a jejich hodn\u00fdch ratolest\u00ed, naklizen\u00e1 dom\u00e1cnost, nape\u010deno, nava\u0159eno, atd. Je to v\u0161ak jen iluze. Za t\u011bmito dokonal\u00fdmi obr\u00e1zky se \u010dasto skr\u00fdv\u00e1 celodenn\u00ed d\u0159ina, probd\u011bl\u00e9 noci, k\u0159ik a pl\u00e1\u010d a \u010dasto tak vystihuj\u00ed pouze chv\u00edli trvaj\u00edc\u00ed okam\u017eik, kter\u00fd ale ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b ostatn\u00edch m\u016f\u017ee vyvolat po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00fd pocit frustrace. Nejen, \u017ee m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee nic nest\u00edh\u00e1te, d\u011btsk\u00fd k\u0159ik u\u017e kolikr\u00e1t nem\u016f\u017eete vyst\u00e1t a k\u00e1vu od sn\u00eddan\u011b dop\u00edj\u00edte studenou a\u017e pozd\u011b odpoledne. Hlavou v\u00e1m prob\u011bhnou my\u0161lenky, kter\u00e9 si z\u00e1rove\u0148 hned vy\u010d\u00edt\u00e1te.Tendence matek je porovn\u00e1vat a kritizovat. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 chce uk\u00e1zat, jak v\u0161e zvl\u00e1d\u00e1 a jak m\u00e1 dokonalou rodinu. To jedin\u00e9, co ale doopravdy v\u011bt\u0161ina pot\u0159ebuje sly\u0161et je to, \u017ee v\u00a0tom nen\u00ed sama. \u017de pocity, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1 jsou naprosto v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku a m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo se c\u00edtit tak, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed. \u017de i ostatn\u00ed za\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed zoufal\u00e9 a nekone\u010dn\u00e9 noci s\u00a0pla\u010d\u00edc\u00edm d\u00edt\u011btem, \u017ee si n\u011bkdy nev\u011bd\u00ed rady, pochybuj\u00ed, zda d\u011blaj\u00ed v\u0161e spr\u00e1vn\u011b, nebo \u017ee maj\u00ed pocit osam\u011blosti. V\u00a0domn\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee se v\u00a0o\u010d\u00edch ostatn\u00edch shod\u00ed, to v\u0161ak nep\u0159iznaj\u00ed.Je t\u0159eba br\u00e1t tyto posty na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch (a nejen tam) s\u00a0rezervou. A naopak, nen\u00ed ostuda ob\u010das p\u0159iznat, jak se v\u011bci ve skute\u010dnosti maj\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Iluze dokonalosti na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch","item":"https:\/\/www.komplex3m.cz\/iluze-dokonalosti-na-socialnich-sitich\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]